Lessons From My Exes

In the wake of all the drama happening between Jordyn Woods and the KarJenners (if you don’t know about it, don’t worry. Gwyneth Paltrow doesn’t know either), I wanted to use this blog post to discuss betrayal. I have learned a lot about betrayal over the past couple of years. There is nothing in this world that hurts more than being left by someone you thought would never leave your life. In 2009, I my best friend lost her life. Now in no way, shape, or form do I look at her leaving this planet as betrayal. I look at this traumatic event in my life as a blessing. She was one of the greatest pieces of art to ever walk this planet. No matter what she did, I looked at her like she was the sun because she was. Ever since then, I have learned to keep this same energy for the people that come into my life. I have a flaw of giving people the benefit of the doubt whenever I meet them. This is always the first thought that comes into my head due to the fact that I feel like I can’t r

Boy, oh boy…. This one is an interesting one to even think about because it's been so long. Let’s talk about my first boyfriend. To make a long story, short about how we met and fell in looOOooOve… this is all you need to know. I met this boy whilst in my freshman biology class in high school. He was that funny kid that made fun of/flirted/terrorized our teacher. It was enough to make me roll my eyes and become smitten with him all at the same time. We started to hang out before I would have to go to basketball practice and sometimes I would even be late to practice because I wanted to squeeze in a few extra minutes with him. After a couple of times of hanging out, we had our first kiss. Let me tell you….this was THE most disgusting encounter of my life. If you know anything about where I went to high school, we had a set of stairs that we would call “the big stairs.” Sooo a top the big stairs, we were just standing there, and the vibes were all right, like there were